I don't love you,Oh well.
'Trash it out here and now'.
To me, honestly.
And really HONESTLY,
it's not a good idea at all.
It has the distinct advantage of not letting the 'victim' hurt the 'attacker'...
BUT!
The con is the 'attacker' cannot see the damage done to the 'victim'.
And as you can see, that is a vital point of undoing the cycle now.
Last time, it's because of bottled up feelings that it had gotten out of hand.
Now unseen reactions and secret curses may just be
our undoing.
Thanks for the suggestion Shannon,
the help we need is all that we can get.
I don't know much about trash outs,
Since our last was a failure and nothing else we had witnessed...
but I get the feeling it has something to do with
tears, mucus, shouting, screaming and fighting.
That was the impression someone gave me, maybe Ma'am Corrine?
I think she didn't really mention tears but our bunch has too many emotional people,
not excluding myself, so I think the first two are exclusive for us.
the fighting is for rougher bunch and I'm not sure if we are capable.
Trash outs, even with my limited knowledge, I believe are
ALL ABOUT PERSONAL BLOWS.
The trash out is an aid for you to become a better person or
a MONSTER.
I can't say much but even the better of us all got warped into monsters.
I swear I never felt as beastly as I had for the last few months.
This goes out to the people who think you've done wrong and claim to be changing but others cannot see the changes.
Or the people who do not know their faults exist.
WAKE UP NOW.Otherwise you'll just be another dolt in the bunch of dunces.
With hardly any friends and those you have are certainly not very
real.
To the people changing whist others claim you naught,
YOU must be the one WANTING to change and not
because OTHERS told you to.
If you think they're wrong, don't give a damn
BUT
You have to be 100% sure and believe in yourself.
But that way will introduce many hardships, that of acceptance and with matters of society.
You'll likely be able to fall but if you're thick skinned, maybe you'll may it through,
BUT
the rest of us will not.
Wow, that's a lot of 'but's...
My point is, DON'T BE SELFISH.
I shall end this off with a passage quote from a book I love.
teenagers are never joking. when seeking to prove
a point, teachers and principals should remember
that teenagers are never ever, sarcastic or ironic.
if they say, "I wish someone would drop a bomb
on this school right now," that means they have
arranged for a nuclear arsenal to be emptied
onto the school and should be immediately
suspended and ridiculed. if they say they were merely
coming up with a joking excuse to postpone a bio test,
reply that all jokes are funny and since dropping a bomb
on a school is not funny, it is therefore
not
a
joke.
- David Levithan's "the realm of possibility" from 'suburban myths' written by the character
AntonHow true, I thought when I saw it for the first time.
That is why I don't exactly trust an adult's judgment at times, be they the most wise but deemed so only by other fellow adults.
like I did yesterday.
